Electronic Reserve Text: from Lawrence Stone, The Family, Sex and Marriage in England, 1500-1800 (New York: Harper, 1979)

Chapter 4: The Decline of Kinship, Clientage and Community


The attachment of relatives to one another was warmer, and the duties founded on consanguinity were extended to a wider circle. Even distant relationship was considered as constituting an obligation to reciprocity of love and good offices. To keep alive the bond of union, relatives in all circumstances addressed one another by their kindred names, as "uncle", "aunt," "niece," "cousin." (T. Somerville, reflecting on eighteenth-century Scotland --which changed well over a century later than England --in My Own Life and Times 1741-1814, Edinburgh, 1861, p. 368)


1. INTRODUCTION
Between about 1500 and 1700 the English family structure at the upper levels began a slow process of evolution in two related ways. Firstly, the importance of the nuclear core increased, not as a unit of habitation but as a state of mind: as its boundaries became more clearly defined, so the influence of the kin and clientage correspondingly declined. Secondly, the importance of affective bonds to tie the conjugal unit together began to increase. These two changes were the product of three concurrent and interrelated changes: the decline of kinship and clientage as the main organizing principles of landed society; the rise of the powers and claims of the state, encouraged by the Protestant reformers, both taking over some of the economic and social functions previously carried out by the family, the kin and the clientage, and subordinating kin and client loyalties to the higher obligations of patriotism and obedience to the sovereign; and the missionary success of Protestantism, especially its Puritan wing, in bringing Christian morality to a majority of homes, especially among the gentry and urban bourgeoisie, both in

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sanctifying holy matrimony and in making the family serve as a partial substitute for the parish. At the same time, these and other forces were at work to bring about a third important development: the reinforcement for a time among these same social groups of the pre-existing patriarchal aspects of internal power relationships within the family. This occurred partly because the nuclear family became more free from interference by the kin, especially the wife's kin, and partly because of wider religious, legal and political changes which enhanced the powers of the head of the household.

The period is, therefore, one in which two overlapping family types can be seen to coexist among the upper and middle ranks, each slowly but imperfectly replacing the other.


2. THE LANDED CLASSES: THE DECLINE OF KINSHIP AND CLIENTAGE
Between 1500 and 1750 it is clear that there was a decline in the role played in landed society by both kinship and clientage. One indication is that claims to cousinhood ties in the subscription of letters occur far less frequently in the late seventeenth and eighteenth centuries than in the sixteenth or early seventeenth, presumably because it was no longer so useful in creating a favourable predisposition in the recipient. It would, for example, be hard to find a parallel in the eighteenth century for the claim to cousinhood advanced in the early seventeenth century by Thomas Wentworth in a letter to Sir Henry Slingsby. The connection was indeed there, but there were no fewer than seven links in the genealogical chain which joined the two, three of them by marriage through the female line. Kinship connections certainly continued to be important for many purposes, especially economic aid and job placement, but they were increasingly limited to the closer relatives. Uncles and' aunts, fathers-in-law, brothers-in-law and sons-in-law were still called upon to serve surrogate or interchangeable roles with members of the nuclear family.

Another significant pointer to a change in both kinship and clientage relations is the decay of 'hospitality' among the aristocracy and greater gentry, which was a common burden of complaint in the seventeenth century. When in the late sixteenth century Lord Burgh-

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ley advised his son, 'Let thy kindred and allies be welcome to thy table, grace them with thy countenance and ever further them in all honest actions,' he was giving advice that was already becoming out of date. The practice of open-handed hospitality was something about which one boasted on one's tombstone. There was, of course, more to this ideal than personal honour defined by generosity demonstrated by open-handed support of kin relatives, clients and allies, for it extended to a whole way of life, including the retaining of hordes of largely idle servants and the keeping of an open table for all comers. The decline of these habits in the late sixteenth and early seventeenth centuries involved a major reorientation of consumption patterns, caused by the growth of a more inward-looking, more private and more urbanized life-style for the aristocratic family. It was characterized by the withdrawal of the family from the great hall to the private dining-room and by the increasing habit of residing for long periods in London to enjoy the 'season'.


The decay of the gigantic and fantastically expensive funeral ritual attended by literally hundreds of kindred, cousins, retainers, domestic servants and poor was another symbol of the same shedding by the social elite of outer layers of familial and extra-familial client ties, and a slow withdrawal to a more private domestic existence. The decline of these late feudal practices represented primarily a decline of traditional good lordship, of the function of a great house hold as a centre of patronage for kin, clients, retainers, servants and tenants. But this decline of good lordship carried with it a weakening of ties to the kin, and a narrowing of the focus of concern down to the interests and pleasures of the nuclear core.


More concrete evidence than these indicators of a decline of expenditure on, and attention paid to, the ramifications of the kin and clientage network is provided by the very clear decline in the concept of kin responsibility for individual crimes and actions. In the early and mid-sixteenth century, at any rate in the Highland zone of the north and west, the royal writ and the royal law courts were less important as law enforcement agencies than the blood feud and the vendetta. Under the vendetta there is collective kin responsibility for individual action, as opposed to the legal theory of individual responsibility: the law will punish the individual criminal but no one else; the vendetta is perfectly satisfied by the punishment of the criminal's brother, father, uncle or nephew, which is a classic example of the principle of interchangeability. By the end of the six-


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teenth century, this custom had virtually died out in England. Henry VIII was the last English king to punish whole families, such as the De La Poles, for the treason of one member.


The degree to which kinship, clientage and even family loyalties had become subordinated to the principle of autonomy of choice of political and religious ideology became clear during the English Revolution of the 1640s, when one aristocratic family in seven was divided father against child or brother against brother. If the divisions within the nuclear core were so frequent, it is obvious that the cousinhood was even more hopelessly fragmented, and that clientage was equally weak. At the end of the seventeenth century, the English political nation was bitterly divided into two parties, going under the labels of Whigs and Tories. In binding together these political groupings, there were four main elements: clientage, meaning dependence on a political patron; kinship; professional ties; and personal friendship. Kinship was certainly a help, and was used by politicians to increase their influence. But for every family connection which carried clear political associations, there w'ere three or four about which nothing is known. There may have been no connection, or the kin may in fact have been split down the middle. Thus of the ten MPs and candidates of the Bertie kin in the reign of Queen Anne, seven were Tories, two Whigs, and one a Whiggish waverer. Kinship often remained useful in the formation of the Whig factions in the eighteenth century, such as the Walpole group, the Pelham Whigs or Rockingham Whigs, but it was no more than one element among several, and not necessarily the most important or the most durable one.


In local affairs, kin ties undoubtedly continued to be important well into the eighteenth century. As t4e English elite was fissured down religious lines in the late sixteenth and seventeenth centuries, fairly strict religious endogamy developed among Catholics and Puritans, but in this case the lines of kinship followed and reinforced the ties of religion, not vice versa. After the middle of the seventeenth century, the amount of social mobility shrank significantly, so that relatively little new blood was coming into the squirarchy to keep the system fluid. Meanwhile in each county for century after century the squires had been intermarrying with one another, until the web of cross-cousinhood became so dense and so universal that it lost its meaning. If everybody is everyone else's cousin, the connection does not matter any more, which is why the recent discovery that Charles


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I was a remote cousin of John Hampden does nothing to advance our understanding of the English Revolution of the seventeenth (century.


Another test of the declining role of kinship is the moral legitimacy accorded to nepotism as a factor in recruitment to state and private offices. It is, of course, a truism that ties of blood and clientage remained very important and respectable elements in appointments in Church and state well into the middle of the nineteenth century. Generation after generation of younger or illegitimate sons were found comfortable berths in the public service, either at home or in the colonies. But each time there had to be a struggle, and each time there was competition to the ties of blood or marriage from the alternative principles of money and merit. Moreover, the influence was primarily exercised by fathers for sons, or sometimes uncles for nephews, and only rarely for more distant members of the kin. It was thus a product of the bonding of the nuclear family rather than of the lineage.


To conclude, everything points to a very slow erosion of the significance of kinship ties among the landed classes, but there is also good reason to suppose that they persisted and continued to play a part in family strategy and local and national politics well into the nineteenth century. A slow trend should not be mistaken for radical change. Moreover, with the decline of ideological passion in national politics after 1720, there was a positive revival of the power of patronage networks and clientage, until ideological conflict rose again towards the end of the century.


3. THE MIDDLE RANKS: THE MODIFICATION OF KINSHIP
Lower down the social scale, changes in the ties of kinship are more difficult to determine. On the one hand, the same factors as were affecting the elite --especially religious loyalties --were also influencing the middle ranks of society. Just as with the elite, there is plenty of evidence that the closer kin relatives, particularly paternal and maternal uncles, continued to playa large part in family decisions, especially when the parents died and the children had to be found jobs or husbands. In 1637-40 a young Cambridge graduate, the Reverend Ralph Josselin, used one uncle's credit to borrow money to tide him over, stayed with another when he was


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unemployed, and found his first church living by the good offices of the first uncle, who in fact paid £10 of his £44-a-year income. On the other hand, Josselin's links to more distant kin relatives, such as cousins, were very remote and casual. Of his thirty-odd first cousins, his elaborate diary over a period of forty-two years mentions only three of them more than five times, and only fourteen even once.


Among the peasantry, the same pattern seems to have prevailed. In one Leicestershire village in the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries, peasant wills show that it was only those who had no nuclear family obligations, or who had already fulfilled them by other means, who left real or personal property to members of the kin. This evidence is supported by an examination of wills in a Worcestershire village between 1676 and 1775, which shows over half of the testators making bequests to the nuclear family, and only a quarter to kin relatives. By this test, the economic role of the kin among small property-owners in the village was now very limited.


Certain groups, however, continued to lay considerable stress on kin ties for social, political or economic purposes. Intermarriage was very commonly used as social bonding among parish gentry families within the county in the early seventeenth century. It was also used for economic bonding among the recently mobile mercantile elites in London and the major cities. In these latter circles, economic circumstances -the need for capital and for reliable business associates -stimulated the search for marriage and kinship connections, which were more carefully cherished than among other social groups. They were particularly common among successful wealthy bourgeoisie without ambitions to transform their children into gentlemen. These upwardly mobile groups might cut the ties of blood which bound them to their humbler relatives back home, but would cement business connections with their economic peers or superiors by a new set of kinship relations. Much joint investment with, and much borrowing from, kin relatives continued to take place throughout the eighteenth century, although the growth of country banks and joint stock companies provided increasingly important alternatives.


A few examples will serve to illustrate this point. An extraordinarily tight web of family ties linked the twenty-eight men who in 1580 formed the Court of Aldermen, the ruling elite of the City of London. Of these twenty-eight, three were sons of aldermen,


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nine sons-in-law, two brothers, six brothers-in-law, and one had married an alderman's widow. Many of them were also linked to other aldermanic families by marriages of their children. There were some fifteen cluster families whose connections by blood or marriage in one way or another embraced two thirds of the sixty-four men who held office as Lord Mayor and served as aldermen throughout the whole Elizabethan- period. What is most significant, however, is that these clusters did not form coherent groups in terms of trading interests, wealth or political connections, so that this evidence for family linkage in the higher echelons of the London business elite should not be pushed too far. Nor was it a closed world by any means, for the cluster families did not dominate the scene, and out siders could fight their way in. But family ties, mostly fairly close ones, certainly helped to cement pre-existing bonds of friendship and mutual economic and political interests, and also helped to ease the access of outsiders into this elite world. Newcomers were easily co-opted and absorbed through marriage.


This use of marriage ties to develop or to cement commercial alliances among urban patriciates was a practice which flourished in the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries and only began to weaken in the eighteenth. Among the eighteenth-century merchants of
Leeds and Hull, the family firm predominated, and Robert Pease could explain 'we keep entirely together to help one another'. In Hull, however, there is clear evidence that by the late eighteenth century more and more partnerships, loans, etc., were being contracted outside the family. Even among the urban patriciates, the bonds of kinship were on the decline.


4. THE CAUSES OF CHANGE

The modern state is a natural enemy to the values of the clan, of kinship, and of good lordship and clientage links among the upper classes, for at this social and political level they are a direct threat to the state's own claim to prior loyalty. Aristocratic kinship and clientage lead to faction and rebellion, such as the Wars of the Roses or the Fronde, to the use of kin loyalty and client empires by entrenched local potentates to create independent centres of power, and to make the working of the jury system of justice impossible by the subordination of obj.ective judgement to ties of blood or local

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loyalty. In the sixteenth century, the state in England increasingly assumed monopoly powers of justice and punishment, military protection, welfare, and .,the regulation of property. This takeover was accompanied by a massive propaganda campaign for loyalty, inculcating the view that the first duty of every citizen is obedience to the sovereign, that man's highest obligation is to his country, involving the subordination of all other considerations and loyalties, even life itself.


This fundamental shift in human values and in the social arrangements that went with them in the period from 1560 to 1640 has been well described by one historian as a shift from a 'lineage society', characterized by bounded horizons and particularized modes of thought, to the more universalistic standard of values of a 'civil society'. The causes of this vast change are clear enough: the Reformation with its powerful drive for the christianization of society and its claim to overriding moral allegiance through the preaching of the Word; grammar school and university education in the rhetoric of Humanism with its stress on loyalty to the prince; Inns of Court education in respect for an abstraction, the common law, as superior to any private or local loyalties to individuals; the growth of more commercialized relationships between man and man; the rise of 'possessive market individualism' that was slowly beginning to erode old communal affiliations. Finally there was the institutional expansion of the nation state: the growth of its bureaucratic size, organization and powers, as literacy and record-keeping expanded and were taken over by the laity; the extension of its claims to universal obedience to the sovereign; and the persistent and progressive intrusion by the central authorities into local government, local jurisdiction and local patronage networks. These were not autonomous processes, but were driven forward by the massive transformation of popular and elite ideas about where prior loyalty lay. Fuelled initially by a general desire for security, the expansion of the bureaucratic nation state soon took on an independent life 'of its own. The consequent decline of kinship and clientage was ,a major cause of the rise of the nuclear family.


This shift of emphasis towards the nuclear family was given powerful support by Reformation theology and practice. The medieval Catholic ideal of chastity, as a legal obligation for priests, monks and nuns and as an ideal for all members of the community to aspire to, was replaced by the ideal of conjugal affection. The


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married state now became the ethical norm for the virtuous Christian, its purpose being more than what Milton described contemptuously, referring to the Pauline view, as 'the prescribed satisfaction of an irrational heat. .., the promiscuous draining of a carnal rage'. The great Puritan preacher William Perkins now described marriage as 'a state in itself far more excellent than the condition of a single life' -a clear contrast to the contemporary Catholic view of Cardinal Bellarmine that 'marriage is a thing humane, virginity is angelical' -in other words that it is no more than an unfortunate necessity to cope with human frailty. This sanctification of marriage--'holy matrimony'--was a constant theme of Protestant sermons of the sixteenth century, which were directed to all classes in the society, and is to be found in both Puritan and Anglican moral theology of the early seventeenth century from William Gouge to Jeremy Taylor.


It was Archbishop Cranmer who in England first officially added a third to those two ancient reasons for marriage, the avoidance of fornication and the procreation of legitimate children. In his Prayer Book of 1549 he added the motive of 'mutual society, help and comfort, that the one ought to have 'of the other, both in prosperity and in adversity'. Later on in the sixteenth century Robert Cawdrey, as revised by Cleaver and Dod, and. then Thomas Gataker, William Perkins and William Gouge, authors of the most popular family handbooks of their day, also emphasized that the purposes of marriage included spiritual intimacy.


Having beaten back efforts to legalize divorce with remarriage by the innocent party for the adultery or desertion of the wife, which was recognized by most Reformed churches abroad, the Tudor Protestants had no alternative but to urge the importance of affective ties as a necessity for marriage, in addition to the old Pauline arguments. Although they were as respectful as ever of the need for social equality and economic security as prime factors in mate selection, they were nonetheless obliged to oppose the strongly commercial attitude to marriage which had been prevalent in the late middle ages and the early sixteenth century, by which bride and groom had been bartered by their parents without their consent. Since the Puritan moral theologians were equally insistent upon the need for filial obedience to parents, the result was often to place the dutiful child in an impossible conflict of role models. They had to try to reconcile the often incompatible demands for obedience to parental


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wishes on the one hand and expectations of affection in marriage on the other. Puritans solved this dilemma by arguing that affection could and would develop after marriage, provided that no violent antipathy manifested itself at a first brief interview.

In England in the 1630s this new attitude to marriage gave rise to some extravagant hyperbole, used by both laity and Anglican theologians. In 1638 Robert Crosse spoke of marriage as 'an earthly paradise of happiness', though he added the conventional warnings against 'an oversottish and doting affection' and 'unlawful and raging lusts'. In 1642 Daniel Rogers thought that 'husbands and wives should be as two sweet friends' and Jeremy Taylor declared that 'the marital love is a thing pure as light, sacred as a temple, lasting as the world'. It is no accident that Charles I and Henrietta Maria were 'the first English royal couple to be glorified as husband and wife in the domestic sense', even if this development owed as much to the rarefied cult of neo-Platonic love in court circles as it did to the attitude of the contemporary Anglican moral theologians.


It should be noted that hardly any of these Protestant or Puritan writers were willing to carry their ideas about the spiritual nature of the marital union to the point of giving it priority over all other considerations. It was left to Milton, tormented by his own unhappy marriage and influenced partly by Renaissance thought and partly by previous Puritan theologians, to demote all other ends to marriage --the procreation of children, sexual control, the public interest in law and order, and the clerical interest in an ecclesiastically blessed rite de passage. For him the prime object of marriage was 'the apt and cheerful conversation of man with woman, to comfort and refresh him against the solitary life'. The logical conclusion to this step was to advocate --as Milton did, three hundred years ahead of his time and with almost no contemporary support -divorce and remarriage in cases of hopeless temperamental incompatibility. The argument was very simple, based on the proposition that 'Where love cannot be, there can be nothing left of wedlock but the empty husk of outside matrimony.' By minimizing the sexual and procreative functions of marriage, he easily came to the conclusion that 'natural hatred is a greater evil in marriage than the accident of adultery'. On the other hand, Milton had very strong views about the subordinate function of women --'Who can be ignorant that woman was created for man, and not man for woman?' --and he therefore demanded divorce only when the 'unfitness' lay with the

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wife, not the husband. It could be demanded by both parties or by the husband alone, but not by the wife alone. Milton thus carried the Protestant concept of holy matrimony about as far as it could go without abandoning the sexual superiority of the male. The roots of affective individualism in seventeenth-century Puritan sectarianism are clearly demonstrated in these writings.


The intensification of married love brought about by the stress on holy matrimony played a part in the shift from, a kin-oriented to a nuclear family. In the open lineage family: where affect was low and widely diffused, the lack of privacy and the self-interest of the kin put a damper on intensive marital emotional bonding. But with the churches now ringing with sermons encouraging such bonding, the influence of the kin tended to decline, as the married couple presented a more unified front towards the external world. The rise of married love and the decline of kin influence were therefore mutually reinforcing trends. The former also was important in helping to detach the couple psychologically from their parents. This major shift in moral allegiances was well understood by the preachers who advocated married love, one of whom frankly stated that 'it is a less offence for a man to forsake father and mother and to leave them succourless ...than it is for him to do the like towards his lawful married wife'. The opposition of parents and kin to the principle and practice of married love was based on a perceived threat to their power and interests.


There were also more profound, although less easily demonstrable, effects on the family of the change from pre-Reformation Catholicism to Anglican Protestantism. Sometimes slowly, more often quickly and violently, the Reformation destroyed the social and psychological supports upon which both the community and the individual had depended for comfort and to give symbolic meaning to their existence. Miracle-working images and relics were defaced and destroyed, chantries endowed for masses for the dead were suppressed, the priests dispersed and the property nationalized. Purgatory was declared inoperative. Confession to priests was forbidden, and their power to remit sins declared a pious fraud. May Day festivities, church-ales, religious processions, the celebration of saints' days were all denounced as mere relics of pagan superstition, to be suppressed along with the physical cult objects -the maypole or the sacred images -around w'hich they had been, organized. Man now stood alone before his Maker, with nothing but his conscience,

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the Bible and the preachers to guide him, deprived of all the old psychological props, collective rituals, and opportunities for blowing off steam.


There were only two beneficiaries of this drastic elimination of sacred ritual by the Protestant zealots. The first was the nation state which now laid claim to those loyalties which had hitherto gone to the community, the city, the parish or the confraternity. The second was the household and its head, which filled the vacuum left by the decline of the Church and its priests as the central institution for moral and religious instruction.

Attendance at service in church remained a formal Sunday obligation, but devotional piety shifted to the daily attendance at family prayers; moral control by the priest was partially replaced by moral direction by the head of the household; and Church catechisms were partially replaced by catechisms for the household, about a hundred of which were published between 1550 and 1600 alone. Edward Dering's popular Catechism was described by its author as 'very needful to be known to all householders whereby they may better teach and instruct their families in such points of Christian religion as is most meet'. John Stalham, a Puritan minister, urged the readers of his Catechism for Children, in 1644, to make 'all your households as so many little churches'. Marriage sermons stressed the need for the bridal couple 'never to neglect family prayer'. In the more pious households, husbands and wives would confess their sins to each other at home, instead of to the priest in church. In many other cases the private diary was the substitute for the confessional, although the forgiveness of the latter is much easier on human frailty than the self-torture of the former. In towns in southern England by the early seventeenth century, the Bible was available in most upper and middle and even lower-middle-class homes, and daily public readings from it by the head of the household, fortified by a rousing sermon in the church on Sunday, replaced the ritual of the sacrament as the main vehicle of religious expression.


Whether in Anglican or Puritan households, there was, in varying degrees, a new emphasis on the home and on domestic virtues, and this was perhaps the most far-reaching consequence of the Reformation in England. The household was the inheritor of many of the responsibilities of the parish and the Church; the family head was the inheritor 'of much of the authority and many of the powers of the priest. Thus the Word of God was to some degree removed from


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the parish church and transferred to the private home: the Holy Spirit was partly domesticated.


5. PEASANTS, ARTISANS AND THE POOR: THE DECLINE OF COMMUNITY
Although the evidence is fragmentary in the extreme, it is fairly clear that neither kinship nor clientage had played anything like the same role among peasants, artisans and poor as they did among their betters. At this social level, it was the community of neighbours whose influence on and control over family life had been of the greatest importance. This influence and control increased or became more institutionalized in some areas, weakened and all but disappeared In others. One in which there was a positive intensification of public interference in family life was the field of morals. The steady advance of Christianity throughout the century, and the growing censoriousness about sin which accompanied it, led to growing interference by Church authorities, supported by neighbours and parish officials, to make all inhabitants conform to the new community norms. Domestic life in the village was conducted in a blaze of publicity.


The clergy struggled to persuade the lower classes to abandon altogether the traditional habit of consensual unions unblessed by the church. There was an earnest effort to ensure that all sexual unions, whether of clergy and their pre-Reformation 'housekeepers' or of the poor, should now be recognized and sanctified by a formal Christian sacrament. Some tentative evidence of the success of this pressure upon the lower classes is the apparent decline in illegitimacy rates in the backward north and north-west from about four per cent in the 1590s, before educated Protestant .ministers first became available in large numbers in these areas, to about one and a half per cent in the mid-seventeenth century when the Puritan supremacy was at its height.


A powerful means of enforcing public standards of morality on family life was through denunciations to the archdeacons' courts, however ineffectual the latter may have been in punishing transgressors. Neither fornication nor adultery was easy in so public an arena as a village, although of course there was plenty of both.


Neighbours gossiped about the most intimate details of family rela-


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tionships, and were quick to complain to the ecclesiastical courts of anything that violated local mores. Reputed seducers of maidens were duly reported on the basis of hearsay only. They thought it wrong that a boy over seventeen should continue to sleep in the same bed as his mother. They were very suspicious about the household of husband and wife, one manservant and one maid, which only contained two beds, so that the husband slept in a bed with both his wife and the maid. They even knew about, and complained of, unusually enthusiastic or deviant sexual behaviour between man and wife. They complained when a husband turned a blind eye to the adultery of his wife, and were quick to denounce cases of bigamy or trigamy. They lurked about to catch the curate in bed with a girl. While approving of a husband's power to discipline an unruly wife, they objected to noisy and excessive brutality or use of foul language which disturbed the peace of the village, as much as they objected to the female propensity to scolding and slander.


An alternative to the archdeacons' courts, whose powers were limited to the more or less voluntary compliance with shame punishments such as standing in church in a white sheet during a service, was enforcement of the moral code by the local secular authorities. In the late Elizabethan period, any constable was empowered to break into any house in which he suspected fornication or adultery to be in progress and, if his suspicions were confirmed, to carry the offenders to jail or before a Justice of the Peace. This was a power that was used up to about 1660, but died out after the Restoration, although it remained in the standard handbook on local justice. Convicted offenders were often ordered to be whipped in the sixteenth and early seventeenth centuries.


Among the poor the principal area in which the function of peasant kinship can be shown to have been on the decline in the seventeenth century is that of aid and welfare for the helpless, the sick and the indigent. In traditional societies these problems are handled by the conjugal 'family, the kin and the neighbours, with some minor help from the church. In sixteenth-century England, rapid demographic growth in the villages, urban immigration, the impoverishment of the towns, and the ravages of price inflation meant that support from the extended network of the kin and from neighbours in the community became inadequate for large numbers of orphans, widows, cripples, sick, and aged, while structural unemployment of the able-bodied first became a problem. During the

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century, welfare for those unable to support themselves had perforce to be progressively taken over by public bodies. In the early sixteenth century, some towns were obliged to organize their own poor relief system, paid out of taxes, and in the second half of the century the practice spread to the countryside on a voluntary and emergency basis only. In about 1600 a nationwide system based on local compulsory taxation and expenditure was instituted, and during the seventeenth century it became a fully functioning organization run by the parish, which effectively relieved the kin, the conjugal family and the neighbours of their previous sense of obligation to provide relief to the sick and the indigent to save them from starvation. In addition to these public arrangements, private legacies from the wealthy built and endowed a significant number of orphanages, hospitals and almshouses for the old, and set up supplementary funds for poor relief in a fair number of villages. A rather similar transfer of responsibility occurred, over a long period of time, in the socialization of the child, part of which was slowly shifted from the family to the school.


To sum up, among the plebs the degree of community control over the family in some respects decreased and in others increased between 1540 and 1640. At the higher level of the social elite, the trend is unambiguous; there was a clear decline in allegiance to kinship and clientage, with a corollary growth of loyalty outward to the state and the religion and inward to the family. The effects on family life of this withdrawal of the kin may not have been altogether for the good. Wives maltreated by their husbands were now less able to turn to their kin for support and defence. Intervention by the (elders of the kin to settle marital quarrels was now less easy and less welcome. The kin could no longer so readily serve as mediators between the parents and the children in the case of a direct clash between the two on the issue of the choice of a spouse. The partial withd~awal of external support and intervention thus made family life more liable to explosive conflict between husband and wife, and parents and children. On the other hand, the partial withdrawal of the kin was an essential preliminary step to clear the way for the subsequent development of the domesticated family and the selection of spouses by the choice of the individuals on the basis of prior affection. But this would not occur for a long time, until the late seventeenth and the eighteenth centuries. Kinship ties did not disappear overnight, but merely slowly, if irregularly, receded over


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several centuries as they became less desirable and less necessary. Thus, when the gentleman merchant John Vemey was considering marriage in 1671, one of his options was a Miss Edwards. Her father took care to tell John that the girl brought in no kindred with her, neither of great persons to be a charge by way of entertainment, nor of mean to be a charge by way of charity and their neediness'. Kinship was clearly now regarded more as a potential burden than a potential opportunity.